True love is not just a feeling; it is a choice to prioritize and nurture a relationship through thick and thin, according to Nollywood actress Queeneth Agbor. She recently shared her candid thoughts on relationships and the importance of safeguarding her own peace of mind.
The actress stood firm on her long-held beliefs about what constitutes real love, stating that if a man watches his partner struggle financially, refuses to help with bills, or fails to provide mental and spiritual support, then he doesn’t truly love her. To Agbor, men are natural providers, and a failure to do so is a clear sign that a partnership lacks genuine love.
Agbor openly admitted that navigating love as a public figure is a complicated journey, with trust being a constant hurdle. She noted that it is difficult to fall in love without overthinking people’s motives, given that so many come into her life with different agendas. The actress revealed that she has seen and heard many horrible stories that make it hard for her to trust people, especially when it comes to matters of the heart.
The actress also spoke passionately about the importance of protecting her inner peace and mental health. She revealed that over the years, she has learned to fiercely guard her peace by practicing mindfulness and engaging in self-care activities. She has also learned to accept the things she cannot control. Agbor’s most important rule for maintaining her mental health is to “cut off or block whatever tries to threaten my inner peace without a blink of an eye.”
